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I’m a Christian and I’m Spiritual. Here’s What That Actually Means.

I am a Christian and I am spiritual. People act like those two things cancel each other out. They don’t. I believe in God. I follow Jesus. I also spend a lot of time on an internal, personal journey to find meaning and connection to something greater than myself. I follow moral rules, holy texts, and established church doctrine. I also lean on inner wisdom, …

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Sun & Bloom Cafe: An Honest Review

About two weeks ago, a TikTok video put Sun & Bloom Cafe on my radar. It’s a new cafe that opened near me. Beautiful aesthetic, according to the video. But the comments told a different story. People said the employees don’t greet customers and leave an awkward, cold impression. I almost skipped it. Then I checked Google reviews. Overwhelmingly positive. So I gave it a …

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Common Delulu Thoughts Women Believe When It Comes To Dating Men

We have all been there. Deep in the delulu trenches, making excuses for a man who has given us every reason not to. This is not a callout. This is a mirror. Grab your tea, sit down, and let’s get into the thoughts that keep women stuck. “I am the only girl he is talking to or interested in” No, you’re not. Trust, there are …

Dating Relationships & Dating

The Coddling Myths About Men That Are Just BS

Welcome to another episode of addressing drone behavior. Today we’re debunking the myths society keeps recycling about men. The idea that grown men are somehow incapable of basic human functioning without a woman standing behind them managing their lives. Let’s get into it. Myth: Men Don’t Memorize Dates False. Men memorize what matters to THEM. They know their favorite team’s entire schedule down to the …

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Time to Be the Basic Budgeting Bitch

Hi, I’m Noelle and I am an emotional shopper. An emotional shopper, like an emotional eater, shops through neutral emotions and bad ones. Every feeling becomes a reason to buy. Aren’t all women emotional shoppers? Probably. But my situation runs deeper. Almost every day I’d go online, where shopping takes seconds, and I’d spend on impulse the moment something caught my eye. Over time I …